Wanting More....

Hi Guyz, Tobias in to discuss this with my fellow UBH's. My friends are a serious matter to me. I think sometimes I care more about pleasing them and being there than I care for myself which is not healthy but I was just raised that way. Its a Southern thing, lol. But earlier I talked to my friend who happens to be HIV+ and I believe that this illness is nothing to play with yet nothing to end your life over. I will admit the thought of HIV and AIDS scares the hell out of me but I know that diseases are not God's way of punishing people they just happen and its up to you to take care of your physical and mental being. But to anyone with this illness this does not mean that your life is over. I'm at tears thinking about how he must feel inside. Talking to him seems like he only focuses on the bad side of it, not that there is a bright side but life can always be worst. Maybe that's how I look at it. I mean UBH's one cannot take a negative aspect of their life and dwell, cry, and moan about what life could be, should be, or would be if things were different. It's life and as hard as we would like to change it we can't. One must learn to mature, deal , and make wise decisions. That's all as humans we can do. He has been shut out society because shallow people in our own community look down upon him for something that hits so close to home. However, in the end he'll will. I don't doubt it one bit. He just has to realize that in the end only he can go to God for himself not those who down him. With that being said, take this to the heart UBH's always worry about how YOU feel about yourself. At the end of the day only you can prevent forest fires. If you're smart you get what I mean. Keep your head up and you mind forward kiddos.

Tobias out...